Baltimore/DC Trip

My recent trip to Baltimore was one of the most satisfying, exhilarating trips I was able to experience in a long time. Ever since the pandemic, I stayed at home for the majority of the time other than for few hiking trips and going out with friends to local places. Two of my friends from college were currently working in the Baltimore/DC area, so I decided to plan a trip down there. I took the early morning Amtrak train, and since I still technically had work, I kept myself busy by working from my laptop and reading a book.

Day 1

Since my friend had work that Friday, I decided to explore Baltimore city solo. I woke up early since I had a work conference, but after my meeting, I walked to Charles Street to grab breakfast. I came across a Mediterranean brunch spot in North Charles Street and ordered chicken shawarma and Zaatar Pie which was seasoned with olive oil and a mix of middle eastern mix of herbs and spices. After brunch, I walked over to the Harbor place, and on the way, I often ran into little gems like local cafes and boutiques hidden away in each street way. The streets stood out since it was paved by red bricks among the different colored historic Baltimore row houses. Once I reached the Inner harbor, I headed to a nearby café to grab coffee and rest there since it was really sunny and crowded near the waterfront.

After finishing some remaining work at the cafe, I walked around the federal hill park and grabbed a good spot on the hill, accessing a good view of the Baltimore Harbor. I was able to see a panoramic view of cargo ships from one side and the Pride of Baltimore and sailing boats lined up on the other side. The park was quite busy with runners, people walking with their dogs, and children around the playground section. Since the park was to commemorate the patriots who fought in the War of Baltimore, there were monuments in the center of the park and a cannon placed near the edge of the hill. After spending a considerate amount of time in the park, I walked down to a nearby art museum, The American Visionary Art. In one section of the building, they showcased art pieces deriving from scrap and recycled materials. Meanwhile, the other side of the museum presented The Compassion Project, portraying spiritual leaders and religious figures like Dalai Lama, Mother Mary, and even a pregnant woman holding her womb to symbolize motifs like love, humility, peace, and compassion.

After the sun went down a little, I headed back to the Inner Harbor to have lunch. Thereafter, I walked down Pratt Street over to the Gallery Mall, but since there was still some innovation happening, only the first floor was open to the public. Although, I thought the concept was innovative with the elaborate indoor garden and fountain. Since my friend worked at the John Hopkins Hospital, I began walking over there to meet her. While I was walking, I came across the Bromo Seltzer tower. I tried to go inside, but apparently, they had closed it temporarily due to Covid. Since I was getting really tired, I decided to head back to the apartment and wait for my friend. Around the evening past dusk, we went to Fells Point Street for dinner. When we arrived at Fells Point, I loved the entire vibe of the place due to the live music band, hanging street lights, cobblestone pathways, and eclectic restaurants. We came across antique stores, hip pubs, and record stores while we were searching for food. We decided to grab pizzas and stop by a gelato spot nearby the restaurant before we head over to the waterfront. It was way more peaceful once we were away from the crowd and near the waterfront deck, and I personally like it more than the Inner Harbor since it was more local. There was a gentleman playing his trumpet in his own boat to entertain anyone passing by. Across the harbor, we were able to see the Pier Broadway Theatre lit up, and there were water taxis tied to the deck.

Day 2

We took the early morning Amtrak train to Washington Union Station, and from there, we took another metro to Basilica of the National Shrine to attend the morning mass. Every time I visit the DC metropolitan area with my family, we don’t leave without visiting the Basilica. Personally, I find the Romanesque art and interior intriguing. After the mass, we walked down to Monroe market that was only a few blocks away from the Basilica. Even though I have visited the Basilica several times in the past, I never came across this vibrant Marketplace that had everything from coffee shops, art galleries, sculptures, boutiques, and even a farmer’s market right in the middle. Since the marketplace was near the Catholic University and the residential complex, there were a lot of students walking around, and some were volunteering to sell food items to the public. For fashion and art enthusiasts like myself, the Monore Marketplace was literally a place to just wander around. Since it was a Saturday, there was a large crowd walking in and out of the market, and there was even a man playing the guitar in the far back of the street to entertain them. Before we were about to catch the next metro, we quickly stopped by a café to grab coffee and a quick bite.

After getting off at Woodly Park Station, we walked down Adams neighborhood, an upscale community that consists of different colored row houses, pre-war apartment buildings, and modern loft apartments. The entire neighborhood had a retro, vintage vibe yet a modern facelift. The neighborhood led us to Adams Morgan street, an independent streak full of bars and eclectic restaurants that offered diverse cuisines like Ethiopian, Vietnamese, Mexican, etc. Many of the restaurants had outdoor corridors, giving the street a more spirited and laid-back vibe. There was a nearby metro station, so we decided to catch the train to Hirshhorn Museum that featured international modern and contemporary art pieces. In honor of Martin Luther King, the lower floor had the installation of the immensely sized words to explore the power of big words that share the message of love and kindness.

There was a nearby park next to the museum. There was a line of food trucks aligned from one end of the park to the other end, and they were selling halal food, Mexican tacos, Dosas, etc. My friend grabbed a shaded spot in the park while I was waiting in line for our food. I never tried Indonesian food before, so I decided to try the Nasi Goreng from one of the food trucks. Since I was standing right outside the food truck, I was able to watch them cook my dish with shredded pieces of shrimp, chicken, green peas, and rice along with sweet soy sauce and shrimp paste. Afterward, I got ice cream from a local vendor before we headed towards City Center. We were not planning on doing any shopping, but we just wanted to see what the place had to offer. To be honest, I was not really enthralled by City Center because I visited the Oculus in New York which offered all the luxury branded stores as well. Although, I thought the fall leaves and stringed lights gave the place a good ambiance.

Since Chinatown was only a few blocks away from Center City, we decided to explore this small DC area until it was time to catch the metro back to Baltimore. As you come across this neighborhood of Downtown Washington, it welcomes you with the ionic Friendship Arch that is decorated with intricate designs, temple roofs, and painted tiles. It’s amazing to know this historic town was once home to thousands of Chinese immigrants. Sadly, due to the development of the federal government, the landlords during that time forced the people out of their homes, and the town population shrunk to smaller numbers. Currently, Chinatown is virtually devoid of anything related to the Chinese culture because the town is losing its residents, and the people who still live there belong to low-income housing developments.

Day 3

Since we had to cancel our hiking trip, we decided to explore the Walter Arts Museum and Hampden neighborhood. While we were walking over to the museum, we came across an abandoned mansion that was now painted with graffiti art. We spend a long time at the art museum since my friends were passionate about Renaissance art. To be honest, I was more fascinated by the Palazzo style architecture and jewelry work by Betty Cooke. From one of the security guards in that floor, we learned Cooke was trying to convey hidden messages to her clients through her pieces of jewelry. In addition to her jewelry business, Cooke developed a large fan base for her leather handbags and accessories. She even demonstrated her technique in making her leather designs which I thought was interesting because we as consumers never contemplate about the work that goes behind a product. Further on in the museum, we came across French landscape paintings and oil canvas paintings. I personally loved the painting that depicted biblical stories and Islamic art.

It was a little past afternoon when we took the city bus to Jones Falls Trail. We walked a portion of the trail, leading us to a rustic meadow mill and Woodberry neighborhood. There were stone cottages that used to be where the mill laborers once lived during the 18th and 19th century. Since we were farther up north and outside of Baltimore, it felt nice to be away from the city for a while and experience the countryside. We even came across a house where they had a vintage henry ford and Volkswagen Van that was popular in the counter culture movement. Once we arrived at Hampden street, we stopped by an Afghan juice bar and tried their doogh which was made with apple, mango, and yogurt. It felt very refreshing to drink after that long walk, and mine almost tasted like lassi due to the mango. Before it got very dark, we took the city bus to head back to the apartment.

I took a lot of initiatives to plan this trip since it was my first time traveling to Baltimore. I wasn’t familiar with the DC area, so I had to plan it out with my friends to figure out what’s the best way of route. One of my favorite part about this trip was our long mile walks and riding the metro in DC. To be honest, I had an easier time navigating around DC than Baltimore because the times for the metro bus were never reliable. That being said, I definitely agree that Baltimore is a real city with serious challenges since it has its bad areas and crimes. A lot of the times, we had to trust our instincts and be vigilant of our surroundings because some streets were unpredictable, and you could easily end up in danger if you took one wrong turn. However, that’s not all there is to this city because it is full of culture, art and passionate people.

On the day I arrived at this city, I was waiting for the bus at Baltimore Penn Station, but I felt unsafe since it was getting dark, and there were few guys watching me from the corner. I decided to order Lyft instead, and the driver was so friendly with me, sharing that he is a motivational speaker on podcast, celebrating 32 years of alcohol and drug addiction recovery. He confided that he worked a full time job for several years, and now that since he has enough savings, he intends to travel and help others. That being said, as much as much I find some part of the city to be broken and decayed, it’s also full of texture, grit, and resiliency. This trip was really worth remembering since it was something I haven’t done for myself in a while. It was challenging, took me out of my comfort zone, forced me to adapt and explore new surroundings, and laugh with friends.

New York Trip 2018

It’s been more than a month since my last trip to New York, I still haven’t gotten a chance to talk about my experience. I still can’t get it out of my mind those amazing few days. It was just my younger brother, my mom and myself–We been talking for months to pay my older brother and his wife a long due visit. I don’t even know where to start. It was really one of the most satisfying, exhilarating trip I had experienced in a long time with my family. I miss the days when my family used to go on long road trips. We used to tell stories, crack jokes, play games. This trip was just like the old ones. It was so good seeing my family all together after a long time.

My brother has been living here for almost two years and he always talks about how much he loves the city. Back when we first moved to the US, we initially settled in a place close to NYC. We lived in a small apartment, went to a catholic school, had few friends in the neighborhood we would hang out with, and my parents went to work while we went to school. We had a very mundane life. We had few family friends in New York, so we made frequent trips. Even though we visited New York many times before, this trip was like no other. It was so special in a way that we got the chance to see New York how the locals here see it.

Day 1

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On our first day, we took a walk around Jersey city in the evening. The view of the Manhattan skyline from the waterfront was absolute gorgeous. The temperature was very pleasant as well. There were a group of people doing yoga. It was a sight to watch with the soothing music and the beautiful waterfront in the backdrop.

FullSizeRender-1The next morning, we started our day early to explore the neighborhood of SoHo in Manhattan. With the vast number of boutiques, restaurants and cafes in each corner of this place, it was so hard to to pick which one to take a look at. We stopped at few boutique to get a glimpse of what the city has to offer. There were so many people selling drawings, sculptures, jewelry, clothing everywhere we look. For fashion and art buffs like myself, SoHo was literally the place to explore. In the obscure streets, cobblestone pathways, between the high brick buildings with cast iron fire escape, you feel like you traveled back to the retro time.

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We passed by Washington Square Park and grabbed a good spot by the fountain. We spent there for almost 30 minutes just catching up on old things and people watching. There were lot of local vendors selling ice cream and smoothies on the side of the road. There was a group of bangara dancers ready to perform in the center. The park wasn’t too busy even though it was a Saturday. It felt nice being outside, the weather wasn’t too hot either. What caught most of our attention was an unusually small-sized man painted in white posing before the arch. His detailed presentation was quite impressive– the stony texture of his skin, weathered look and his head covered with an off white head scarf.

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We stopped at a nice Chinese restaurant for lunch. It was my first time trying western Chinese cuisine. We ordered Biang Noodle Soup and lamb dumplings for all of us. Our noodles came in a bowl with a variety of meat like pork, lamb and beef. It looked something close to bibimbap. It had the fiery red color, but the spices were well balanced. The noodles were chewy and the broth was so amazing.

May the lives remembered, the deeds recognized, and the spirit reawakened be eternal beacons, which reaffirm respect for life, strengthen our resolve to preserve freedom, and inspire an end to hatred, ignorance and intolerance.

After a nice lunch, we quietly walked around the south memorial pool to the oculus. We were still back in India at the time of the 9/11 attack. I remember watching the horrific news on TV, but I never felt the magnitude and the despair of those families who just lost their loved ones. A family right next to us was very emotional as they were looking at the name of their relative and putting roses by that name. The fountain is so simple yet powerful in a way that gives us hope. The oculus was so beautiful, and had a unique design spoke of promise and lightness. I loved the inside of the place more than the outside. It was around dusk when we got on the ferry. The view of the sunset was so pretty from the boat. The sky was colored in crimson gold as the sun was shining past the liberty statue.

Day 2

After morning mass, we went down to East Williamsburg to have brunch. It was a quaint, cozy brunch place in Brooklyn. Even though the line was long, it was so worth waiting. The pancakes were so delicious since they were made from scratch. We were fueled with enough energy for the day. We then took a Uber ride to Brooklyn bridge. During the ride, we got a chance to see inside of a Jewish Community. I wasn’t aware that NYC had a large Jewish community until then. There were buses and schools specifically for Jews. The women were very modest and most of them wore black. They wore pass knee length skirts along with a overcoat and a hat. There were men dressed in black and with long sideburns walking down the street. I thought the community was really far conservative compared to everything we have seen so far in New York.

As we came by the Brooklyn Bridge, we passed a bazaar underneath the Manhattan Bridge’s archway. The vibe was totally something you would feel in a middle eastern country. It had everything from modern antiques, vintage clothing to food from around the world. After spending a moderate amount of time in the market area, we headed towards the bridge. I was very surprised to find how narrow the pedestrian walkway was on the bridge. There were lot of speedy bikes zooming past us. I almost crashed into a biker because I was on the wrong side. It was quite windy up there, but it still felt really nice. The view of the manhattan skyline from the bridge was so admiring.

           

After walking across the bridge, we headed to Chinatown for lunch. After a classic Chinese meal with lots of dim sums, we went searching for a place to get ourselves a massage. The dense crowds in the street did make me feel a little overwhelmed, but I really enjoyed the vibe of this street. It was around evening and there were those red Chinese lantern balls lightened up everywhere. We finally found a place where they were doing massages for reasonable prices. I went for a foot massage but there was a miscommunication due to the language barrier. It was somewhat frustrating trying to make them understand what I wanted. In the end, it all worked out and we all had something to laugh about. 🙂 Afterwards, we went for somewhere nearby to get ice cream. Even through this traditional Thai ice cream (nitrogen ice cream) has been making waves in Instagram and has become a phenomena in the US, it was my first time seeing how they actually make it. For anyone who visits chinatown whether you come alone or with your family, there is something for everyone who comes here to enjoy a little piece of China in New York City. For the rest of our week there, we mostly spent time shopping in fifth avenue, going out to eat and watching Netflix at home. I was really hoping to walk around Central park, but we were all too tired from the previous days. And we thought it’ll be nice to save something to see next time we come here.

This trip was really worth remembering and gave us a chance to look into a city that breathes its own history and culture. One of my favorite part about this trip was our long mile walks and riding the subway. It was really a different way of traveling and the best way to explore this phenomenal city. There is so much to see in each corner. In the midst of standing next to the big skyscrapers and buildings, you really do feel small in this big world. I often wonder why people move to this city. People from all walks of life come to New York to find a job, build a family and come here to discover themselves. I think it can be overwhelming sometimes, but I don’t think it’ll be any adventures living somewhere you have no challenges. It forces you to think faster and make better decisions. I am amazed at the fact how much I love New York than when I was a little child. Back in 4th grade, I hated living in New York mainly because of the crowd, lonely feeling and living here in a small apartment, but there is a beauty behind all of that. In any corner of the city, you will come upon many people working in streets, restaurants, cafes and shops to make a living. Everyone has a different style and personality and no one is judging each other. There is a huge, diverse population living here and they are all just minding their own business. At first I thought people living here do not smile very much. It’s probably because I was here for a visit and everywhere I look around, no one is smiling and they are all in a rush going somewhere. They are rushing to catch the subway to get to their job or hurrying home to make dinner for the family. If you think about it, who has the time to smile in between all that. I think if I move to the city in the future, it will make me more resilient and grow into a stronger woman.

Open your eyes

My trip to charlotte a month ago, was one of the most satisfying, spontaneous one. After my finals were over, I just wanted to stay one extra day in Greensboro before leaving home for the summer. I lied to my mom telling her that I had another final left. So that day after my last final, I walked around downtown by myself just enjoying the nice evening. I ran into a friend after a long time and we had dinner together at a nice restaurant. He invited me over to his house in Charlotte. With much hesitant, I said yes afraid how his family will perceive me. It was a two-hour drive to Charlotte. We talked about a lot of things during that two-hour drive. While I was staying at his place for the night, his family treated me like someone from their own home. They were so kind and generous to give me a room and make me feel comfortable. Even though his parents spoke a different language, they were still trying to have a conversation with me. 🙂 They told me how they immigrated from Vietnam back in the day and worked so hard to build a good life over here.

The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open.

This can’t be phrased any other way. It’s when we open up listening to other people’s stories from different walks of life, we gain perspective. During this past year, I found myself engaging in meaningful conversation with friends, going to intercultural events hosted by the campus, spending time with nature and writing more reflections. If I don’t have the time to sit down somewhere peacefully and write on my blog, I try to note it down on my phone. It’s been a year since I started blogging and it really helps me to express my thoughts and emotion out there. It feels good reading other blogs and interacting with an audience around the world. Recently, a blog caught my attention where it was talking about expanding your horizons. Reading that post reminded me why it’s important to open our eyes to the world. I can’t explain how much I want to be on the other side of the globe right now immersed in another culture. I hope one day I’ll able to take a break and go backpacking around the world. Even though I am not financially stable right now to be a full-time traveler, I make road trips and take up small adventures then and now like white water rafting, parasailing, scuba diving and so on.

I know people say that traveling is important to experience life. But I still get that sense of joy of experiencing different things around me. For a long time, I been so crazy about trying new cuisines –Mediterranean, Korean, Vietnamese, Ethiopian, Thailand, Mexican 🙂 I often go with a friend or two and it’s really fun talking and bonding over the meal. If I can’t find a friend to dine with, I am not anxious anymore to eat in a restaurant alone. Lately, I started watching foreign films. As much as it feels overwhelming trying to read the subtitles and focus on the screen at the same time, it feels thrilling to learn a new language. Other days I love watching animal documentaries. I am not sure if it has to do with the cinematography or its close details, I get adrenaline each time I watch them. My point is that by doing these small ventures, I am able to get out of my comfort zone and expand my knowledge.

Recently I started a part-time job for the summer. Back in high school, I stayed in a job I despised so much to various reasons. After I quit that, I didn’t apply for any other job for a long time worried that I won’t be satisfied with the new one. Over the years, I learned it’s impossible to find a job you actually enjoy. I am excited about this job though, the people are very friendly and easy to work with. I am hoping to save up some money for my backpacking adventures. I know that is not going to be anytime soon, but it feels good to work towards a dream like that.